Dre Meller - Neurodivergent Affirming Associate Marriage and Family Therapist

I’m an autistic ADHDer and I’ve spent my life navigating the ups and downs of being neurodivergent in a world that often doesn’t accommodate the way my brain works. I don’t just work with neurodivergent individuals and couples—I live it every single day.

I’ve been with my autistic partner for 21 years, and together we are raising four neurodivergent children, ages 6 to 30. Our home is one of sensory needs, deep-focus interests, executive function challenges, and creative solutions. I know firsthand the beauty and intensity of neurodiverse relationships and parenting, as well as the real struggles that come with balancing different processing styles, emotional regulation needs, and daily logistics.

I also bring experience from a prior long-term relationship and co-parenting journey, which has shaped my understanding of blended families, relational transitions, and the challenges of maintaining connection while parenting through change. Creating a new family structure after divorce requires grace, patience, and practical strategies for co-parenting—things I deeply understand both personally and professionally.

These lived experiences fuel my passion for helping neurodivergent individuals, couples, and families thrive. Therapy should feel like a place where you don’t have to mask or explain yourself—a space where you can explore what works for you, instead of trying to fit into a system that wasn’t built with neurodivergent minds in mind.