Christopher Kaminski. ADHD Coach for Queer & LGBTQ+ Adults | Neurodivergent-Affirming Systems & Strengths

When you know what you want to do but can’t make it happen, the problem isn’t your brain—it’s the setup around you. I’m Christopher (Martian) Kaminski, an ADHD coach based in Durham, NC. As an active member and organizer in my local queer community, I bring my lived neurodivergent, gender queer experience to my work, offering a gender-affirming space where you never have to translate or defend how you operate.

I primarily work with ADHD adults, late-identified neurodivergent folks, and LGBTQ+ individuals who intellectually understand their executive dysfunction, but still struggle with task initiation, burnout, daily overwhelm, and related topics.

Behavior isn’t a willpower issue—it’s driven by environment and structure. My practice integrates positive psychology, awareness coaching, and pattern recognition. Rather than trying to “fix” your wiring, we use collaborative insight to analyze where friction occurs and co-create real-world experiments. Together, we work on unmasking, energy alignment, and designing sustainable systems that hold up in real life.

Sessions are practical and direct. We identify leverage points in your routines, test small environmental adjustments, and iterate based on what actually sticks—without judgment or shame loops.